Out with the old, in with the new … chair

We’d been through a lot together, my old leather office chair and I. For a quarter of a century, I relied on her support, on those welcoming arms of hers every day. Together, we wrestled through pages of prose. Without fail, she had my back and covered my rear.

During one of our many moves ― we’d been through 10 homes together ― I lost a key bolt that fastened her seat to her swivel. Knowing I could not go on without her, I took forensic lengths to find the long-discontinued part and had her expertly repaired. We took care of each other that way. We were as close as human and furniture could be.

Until, alas, the time came for us to part.

Though my chair and I were great together in many ways, we were not a good physical fit. The chair was meant for someone taller. If I wanted my feet to touch the ground, I had to perch on the seat’s edge. If I sat back, my feet dangled like Goldilocks in Papa Bear’s chair. Apparently 25-year-old ergonomic design is not what it is today.

Meanwhile — and here comes the heartbreaking part — at an office down the street where I had a second job, I met a more comfortable chair, one that was everything my thickly cushioned traditional chair was not. It was sleek, white, modern, proportioned to fit me and comfortable.

When that office closed last week, I called dibs on the chair. I brought it home, which felt like betrayal. I moved the old chair out into the hall, where she couldn’t see me try the new chair behind my desk. I sat. I swiveled. The chair felt just right. Plus, the new chair updated the whole space.

Irrationally, I clung to the old chair for a few days before I could bring myself to rehome her. Then I posted the chair on The Buy Nothing Project, a Facebook Group page where community members list items they are giving away or needing:

#Gift: All leather, gently used. Seven books and hundreds of articles written from this seat. May the force be with you. Available for porch pickup.

Within a few hours, a dozen interested parties responded. I held a drawing.

When the winner came to claim her chair, I met her out front. I wanted to see the chair off and make sure she was in good hands. The recipient was a mother of two and the manager of a small business, who liked to write children’s stories, she said. She hoped to be published someday. Her husband had co-opted her desk chair after COVID drove his administrative job into their home.

“I thought if I got him this chair, I could get mine back,” she said. Then, as if reading my mind, she added, “Or maybe I will use this one myself.”

“That’s a lovely idea,” I said. (I barely knew this woman, yet I wanted this asset to convey writer to writer.) I gave the chair a wistful pat and sent them both off.

I tell you all this to show you that I am not immune to getting attached to stuff. However, realizing when a furniture relationship has run its course helps both you and your home evolve and just might help others, too.

The season of giving is a time to re-evaluate what you have and what’s due for an upgrade. Here are some questions I worked through, and you might consider, too, when looking to let go:

Is it still working for you? Though my chair was not that comfortable, I made do because it was, well, my chair. I harkened back to an interview I had earlier this year with Chris Peterson, author of “Home Office Solutions,” who said, “Your chair is the most important part of your work environment. The right chair is particular to your anatomy.”

Does it lift your space or date it? Styles change. Bigger, heavy furniture has given way to lighter, sleeker pieces. While I am not going to replace all my older style furniture, I have found that swapping out a few traditional pieces for more modern ones can quickly refresh a room.

Do you have something better you can use? Once I had a new, more stylish, more comfortable chair, I could not justify hanging onto the old one.

Home decor: Out with the old, in with the new … chair